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How I Learned to Cope with Financial Stress (and What You Can Try Too)
If you’re feeling financial stress right now, know this: you’re not alone, and there’s always a solution. Start with one small step—whether that’s taking a walk to clear your head or opening your bank app to face your numbers.
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Financial stress is real. I know because I’ve lived through it.
At my worst, money worries impacted my sleep, my mood, and even my relationships. I tried coping with it by overeating, drinking, and yes—even overspending. But those habits only made my financial situation worse.
According to the American Psychological Association (APA), 72% of Americans report money as a major source of stress. And here’s the kicker: your body reacts to financial stress the same way it would if a lion were chasing you. Adrenaline. Cortisol. That constant fight-or-flight mode.
How Financial Stress Shows Up
For me, it was sleepless nights and sudden bursts of anger. For you, it might look like:
- Frequent money arguments
- Ignoring bills or phone calls
- Headaches, tension, or fatigue
- Anxiety, mood swings, or depression
- Withdrawing from friends and family
Money touches everything in our lives, which is why financial stress hits so hard.
What Helped Me Start Coping
I didn’t turn things around overnight, but I started practicing healthier habits that made a difference:
- Breathing exercises. Learning to take slow, intentional breaths helped me calm down when my thoughts spiraled.
- Journaling. Writing out my worries gave me perspective and stopped them from just looping in my head.
- Movement. Walking around the block or stretching changed my energy in minutes.
- Saying no. I stopped overcommitting to things—especially ones that cost money—and created space to focus on my plan.
At the same time, I faced the numbers. I built a simple budget. I looked at my debts. I brainstormed ways to earn more. Awareness gave me clarity, and clarity gave me back some control.
What You Can Do Next
If you’re feeling financial stress right now, know this: you’re not alone, and there’s always a solution. Start with one small step—whether that’s taking a walk to clear your head or opening your bank app to face your numbers.
The stress may not disappear overnight, but every healthy choice you make adds up. With time, you’ll shift from reacting to money stress to responding with confidence.
Final thought: You deserve peace of mind—not just more money, but more calm, more control, and more freedom in your life.
What are the signs of financial stress?
Common signs include money arguments, ignoring bills, headaches, fatigue, changes in sleep or appetite, and withdrawing from friends and family.
Can financial stress affect relationships?
Yes. Money stress can cause arguments, emotional distance, and tension in families, which is why coping strategies are so important.
What’s the first step to coping with financial stress?
Start by acknowledging your stress and looking at your financial picture—income, expenses, and debts. Awareness brings clarity, and clarity reduces fear.
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Jason Vitug
Jason Vitug is the founder and CEO of phroogal. His writings explore the intersection of money, wellness, and life. Jason is a New York Times reviewed author, speaker, and world traveler, and Plutus-award winning creator. He holds an MBA from Norwich University and a BS in Finance from Rutgers University. View my favorite things→
Jason Vitug
Jason Vitug is the founder and CEO of phroogal. His writings explore the intersection of money, wellness, and life. Jason is a New York Times reviewed author, speaker, and world traveler, and Plutus-award winning creator. He holds an MBA from Norwich University and a BS in Finance from Rutgers University. View my favorite things→
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